Do we control our destiny, or do unseen forces manipulate us?
One day on a winter morning, I passed by my school while walking to the market. It was 10:00 but sun wasn’t quite visible yet and it was all foggy. The chilly breeze was making me shiver even in my fat jacket……I stopped for a while to peep through the gate and it reminds me of a time in school. Me chatting with my best friends and sipping through a coffee… Sharing every bit of ourselves and laughing on the stupid stuff. This is all what we do the whole day and we couldn’t wait to meet each other the next morning to do all that again....Back in those days, that was all I ever wanted and I wanted to preserve it forever and tried my best to do that…but still the things did not turn out the way I planned?
There are many times in life when I had a little glimpse of the future fate has planned for me and I realized I want something else……Few times instead of accepting predetermined path I decided to act shrewdly and defy fate. No matter how hard I tried….life always threw me back to the place I was meant to be….. Even thought I always put relentless effort to plan my course of action, still some decisions lead me to good and some lead me to bad, but now I believe that it all is just a part of the Masterplan.
Some of my worst decisions have lead me to the best things in my life and many of my rational decisions have made me cry. So is it worth to plan all the time when now we know that all it take is a mere spin of destiny and you will end up in a situation which you could have never imagined….I never used to believe in destiny and thought of it as a fiction, used by the herd of inferior human beings to hold back the few superior men and justify their own defeat. You know like how people always blame their failures and others success on destiny…….But after dancing to the tune of life for a long time, I have decided to change my mind.
Why the ones we love the most drift away, even though we try our best to hold them?....How do we lead to our best friends in life?....I never planned them and yet they happened. Discern it as much as possible but life won’t ever let you understand the reason behind……We are like a boat in a Youthful river. Paddle as hard as possible but we still drift with the flow. This force of life is what leads us to everything….. It doesn’t mean to stop paddling. Give your best shot and let the nature do its course. May be the river will lead you in a direction where you really wanna go.
But who governs our fate anyway? There could be forces in the universe which we haven’t discovered yet that controls us…..There must be some driving force or some power, which steers me to things which I have never planned to achieve,...or drifts me away from the ones I loved and always wanted to have. It doesn’t matter to me what’s written in my Masterplan, but the answer I am most desperate for is…..only if I ever could, how can I change it to the way I want?
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